The Older The Better: Sex After 35
Breaking it to her new boyfriend of 45 years old that his penis isn't satisfying is one huge terror...
Concern:
I recently just started to date an older man. I am twenty-six, and he
is fifty-four. I've always dated out of my age bracket, but never to
this kind of extent. When we have sex, I notice that it seems like he is
struggling to stay hard. Sometimes he'll go completely limp. Is there
anything to be done about this?
Discussion:
I
can actually totally relate to your current situation. I myself, have
never dated a man that was even remotely close to my age. I feel like
men my age just lack a certain sense of maturity and direction. I can
usually only find these qualities in men who are, at the very least, six
to seven years older than I am.
The Swag Bag
However, like you mentioned before, there is the whole getting it
up conundrum that must be dealt with. It is important to understand that
these types of things happen every day. It's just how the circle of
life operates. One minute you're able to go at it all night without so
much as a water break, and the next your body's functions have come to,
what feels like a screeching halt.
As far as turning back the clock on life, there really isn't much
you can do. If you are looking to get up and on, without complications,
then you've come to the right place!
Similarities In Aging
Everyone knows that men and women are not the same. We don't think
the same, we don't react to things the same, and we definitely don't
look the same when we're naked. So it is a bit surprising that we
actually go through a lot of the same type of stages when aging.
When a woman reaches the age of about forty-five, her body will
start the process of the final change she will go through in life. This
big change is most commonly referred to as menopause. Essentially, what
happens during this time is a loss of the female sex hormone called
estrogen. When we were young, estrogen flowed freely through our bodies,
oiling the intricate details that make up a woman. Once we start to
enter into that big 'Change' process, it means that our estrogen levels
are about to bottom out to levels that are an all time low for us.
Comparatively, most of the same thing will happen to a man when he
reaches the age of fifty. Once a man hits his middle ages, he will start
to experience a dropping level of the male sex hormone, testosterone.
Just like estrogen is to women, testosterone is to men. It oversees
things like stamina, and proper blood circulation to the genitals.
Go With The Flow
So how do we fix these rapidly decreasing levels of essential
hormones? Well, the good news is that there are many natural remedies
and herbs out there that will help to increase any blood circulation
loss. Herbs such as Deer Antler and Horny Goat Weed, will greatly
increase the amount of blood that is pushed into the chambers within the
shaft of the penis. (TRY:
Natural Enlargement for Older Men) This will give you a long lasting erection that will stay hard throughout the intercourse session.
These herbs have bettered the sex lives of many a man. They enable
us not to be discouraged by our aging bodies, but to embrace the changes
and work with them. Older men have always been championed as the best
lovers out there, because of all the knowledge they have on what a woman
really wants in bed, don't let that go to waste.